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Who Am I Going to Sleep with Tonight?

Posted in ROMANCE, SLEEP on August 3, 2018 by Kashi


Some speak of yearning to be touched; some speak of the intimate sharing of conversation and others speak of companionship or security.

There are a vast variety of reasons why people come together for love and affection.

I had a friend call me recently to share with me an array of health problems they were experiencing. They spoke of many visits to the hospital and gave me a report on the medicine they had been prescribed. They also spoke of a new kind of emotional sensation that was dark, cynical and new to their reality. Life seemed like it was getting darker and darker by the moment and that they would soon lose all hope.

It was sad and I did not like seeing my friend like this.

I listened to him tell is story. Even though the incidents, facts and circumstances were unique there was something strangely familiar about his sharing. I listened some more and soon saw the pattern that I am familiar with.

After several minutes, I asked him how long he had been ill. “When did the illness begin?”

He mentioned that it had started about four months ago.

“Ah ha”, I said, “When did you start making love with your new girlfriend?”

“About four months ago”, he continued, “I have had this feeling for awhile now that this love affair may be making me ill”.


“Didn’t we look at the charts and see that the chemistry could be difficult for you, do you remember that?”, I asked.

“Yes, I do”, he replied.



This is what happens when we become physically intimate with another person. We become something else. We lose our center, we lose our individuality and we lose our peace of mind and often our health is paying for it in some way.

This is not just about sex, this is also about sleeping.

Check around you. Are your children sleeping in the same room together or with you? Do you know what kind of impact it is having on each child to be constantly in someone’s aura and not having a break from the pressure of another person’s chemistry? How does one child impact the other? There could be a chemistry that is stimulating some unpleasant activations that are not natural, creating unpleasant experiences for the child in many ways.

What about the neighbor that lives below you or beside you or on top of you? Are they happy or angry? Is your neighbor a Manifestor, Generator or a Projector and is your openness getting defined by them while you are at home?

Do you know who you are without the impression or imprint of another?

What about the person sleeping beside you? Each partner has become someone else as the two merge chemistry.

It’s time for you to go to work. When you arrive and interact at work, socially, are you going to be you? Is anyone really going to see YOU to recognize you properly and give you the support you need by being seen?

Probably not.

If you are a family, you have all the aura’s to contend with in your own personal aura.

If you want a happy family or a pleasant marriage, the first thing to do is create a separate sleeping environment far enough away from each person’s aura. Give each person a minimum of thirty feet, Happy_Family_At_Homeideally.

If your home doesn’t accommodate that kind of space, then create outdoor sleeping environments that will allow for everybody to create the type of environment that helps them to sleep deep and sound while emptying their aura.

Let the children determine the type of environment that they would like to sleep in and support them in helping them to create it. For instance, I am ‘cave’ and for years I have been creating a cave-like environment to sleep in. I use to think that I was decorating but now I understand that it is the only way I can sleep deep and feel rested. Your child may need to create their space in a similar way. They will naturally move towards what is correct for them if they are supported in discovering it.

Watch how different each person wakes up when they are sleeping in the way that is correct for them. Children will be calmer, happier, more stable if allowed to empty and recharge their aura each night. Lovers become friends again as they greet each other in the morning fresh with a smile and centered in their own aura, rediscovering their love.

It’s worth it to move, if you have to. Sleeping in your own aura makes a world of difference in how your experience life.

You deserve to feel who you are, rested, refreshed and available for the opportunities that are there for you. By being centered in your own aura and chemistry, you are able to navigate more clearly with your inner compass.

Practice sleeping in your own aura and test the exercise. See if it brings a more calm sense of peace to the home and the relationships.

Written by Kashi Stone, 2013


The Imprinted Idiot

Posted in SLEEP on August 3, 2018 by Kashi

“You’re really being imprinted. I can see it”, the Reflector said to me while I was staying in an apartment building and sleeping less than twenty feet away from others. There are no walls in the other dimensions, only in the physical. Not even a wall stops the aura imprint from another person who may be in the apartment, next to yours, sitting in the chair watching TV or lying in the bed sound asleep; even above or down below, there are no walls in the astral or the etheric dimensions.

Sleeping alone, far away from others and far from the imprint of another person’s chemistry is golden rule number one. When I sleep near others or spend too much time with one person in one place, I get heavily imprinted and my character can change, drastically. This can happen easily with an open G person, like me. (see article here)

Including, when I am spending time with others in the same place too long, I lose my daily ecstasy. It is very difficult for me to maintain no matter where I go. Within a few days, the bliss dissipates, chords begin hooking into my Solar Plexus and the thought currents of others are trailing through my open centers. Meditation several times throughout the day is necessary just to clear the tentacles of jealousy, neediness, competition, victimhood, worry or fear as I work to hold my center inside the group or environment where I am staying.

Even sleeping far away from others at night, still, I must meditate throughout the day to clear, empty and hopefully, keep my bliss. It’s been proven that the less I am around people, the more I am in bliss. Seldom, do I receive a reflection of ecstasy from another person. Rather, most people are ill and/or terribly insecure and usually, they are in a form of worry concerning survival or love. Troubling, worrisome thought currents make it very difficult to dial in ecstasy in our togetherness. And yes, the more open a Head and Ajna center are, the greater the tendency to be imprinted and influenced by the thought currents of others.

Whatever environment we are living in, spending time in – work or home, whoever is in that space, contributes to and builds the atoms that create our physical form and state of health. Those same people set the thought currents that run through the mind throughout the day, creating our reality. For this reason, it is so important to be mindful of the connections that we are making and the relationships in which we form physical and emotional bonds.

It is obvious that whatever group we are living and working in, the weakest link, the one who is ungrounded, unstable or not healthy, sets the tone for the rest of the group and pulls on the energy of those who are the strongest for healing and sustainment. The overall tone of the group plummets when a sick person enters the domain or a character that is out of integrity attempts to integrate into the group and share energies.

Dialing in the correct environment, the right kind of alliances, the best thought-currents to entertain and the best company to keep is an art form that challenges the heart of one’s being. It can only operate in a space of detachment and surrender, trust and patience while in a state of grace as the life trajectory takes you from one experience to the next.

Bliss re-ignites when I am doing what I love with all my heart, uninterrupted nor distracted.
Bliss comes when I am feeling playful, inspired, and enjoying my environment.
Bliss bathes my entire being as I diligently strengthen the connection with my Higher Self through frequent meditation in a sacred space of beauty and quietness.
Bliss arrives when I am open, trusting and expanded in my encounters with others for this brings the right kind of connections for fulfilling my life purpose and supporting others.

When I first met my good friend who is a Reflector, we stood in front of each other and giggled as ecstasy rippled through my body and a delightfully surprising moment occurred in his trajectory. We were thrilled to have found each other in the sea of maya, the land of drama, the land of imprinting.

What a joy to share in uplifting thought currents that reinforce ecstasy.

It helps to be mindful of how one is being imprinted.

Don’t be an idiot.

May you choose wisely.




Written by Kashi Stone, 2018 February

Finding You

Posted in SLEEP on August 1, 2018 by Kashi

freedom to be self

It is important to take a period of separation in order to know our selves. When we sleep every night with our lover in the same bed, we still don’t know who we are. Our unique strategy and authority is compromised as we sleep together, taking on others issues and qualities and attempting to manage them as if they are our own.

For instance, a Mental Projector who sleeps with an Emotional Manifestor will be inclined to experience strong, misplaced emotional energy and likely rise to quick and uncharacteristic anger.

The Emotional Manifestor, on the other hand, may take on the qualities of the Mental Projector, and may incorrectly wait to be invited to life’s events –only to become bitter and tense in the process of waiting. For the Manifestor, it’s about making things happen, not waiting to be invited.

The mixing of auric fields can create much confusion for the couple that sleeps together. Likewise, for the family that shares close quarters. Living in an apartment building or condominium complex may pose a similar situation. In this way, we cannot feel or know who we really are.

The potential to inadvertently take on the qualities inherent in each design will always be present. For the vast majority of us, we are a mix of other people’s auras in addition to our own. How can we tune into and know ourselves when we are influenced by the energy of others?

Sleeping alone – a step toward authenticity

To insure that one is not being compromised by unwanted auric influences, a personal sleeping area must be at least 15 feet apart from another; I make sure there is about fifty feet between me and the other person sleeping. In regularly sleeping this way over time, a big difference will be noticed as quality of rest improves and we wake up more often full of our true self!

It takes only a few days to empty one’s aura when there has been consistent, non-stop exchange of auric energy with others –such as sleeping together every night. Once we empty, we begin to see ourselves without any influence of others. And for the first time, we may notice something very different about ourselves. Finally, we can actually discover our most unique, natural rhythms and flow

Although sleeping alone is not the only path toward true authenticity, sleeping separate is a critical step to discovering our personal strategy and authority. When we can tune into our body and feel it through sleeping alone in our own auras and allow time for it to empty of others energies, we come to know ourselves more completely. It’s a beautiful, selfull act of self-love.

Self-love makes us more attractive, more peaceful, more content and more tuned in to the subtle guiding frequencies of our own operating system –our own design.

Sleeping alone and being apart for a time can also enhance the thrill of our lover’s connection when we do meet. It also heats up the attraction factor between lovers who may have become bored with each other over time. With the nightly separation, the butterflies in the tummy begin to stir again when you greet each other in the morning with a kiss and a hug. Missing each other just a bit helps with keeping the romance strong.

Nothing is more powerful in finding you than sleeping alone, maintaining a clear aura and being deeply seated in the knowledge, practicing the tools that are inherent, within you, to guide you.

Our personal strategy and authority is given the chance to operate when we spend this precious time with ourselves, which means you are becoming more and more you.

A very delicious state of being.

Kashi Stone 2014

Finding The Pearl

Posted in SLEEP on August 1, 2018 by Kashi

Oyster and Pearl

Sometimes, all it takes is one person who is diligent in practicing their lifestyle disciplines to plant the seeds for others to begin to see the magic of sovereignty and taste that same state of bliss.

The very first place that a true state of sovereignty is created is in the bedroom.

There is no way that a person can be sovereign, individual, unique and truly them selves unless they are sleeping alone, in their own aura far away from another person’s imprint, emptying through out the night.

A person must sleep twenty-five feet away from another and sometimes farther than fifty feet, depending on chemistry and aura, in order to empty and not receive the imprint of another sleeping body.

Sleeping outside in nature brings great benefits. Enjoying fresh air while sleeping cleans out the lungs. Outside of an electrical grid, the body falls deeply into rest and recuperation. Under the protection of trees, the entire body is rejuvenated and healed while it lays still.

Sleeping outside, in nature, far away from another sleeping body is truly conducive to waking up in a state of joy in the morning.

Wherever I go, whether visiting friends or family, I have my small sleeping tent with me. I find a cozy place outside in the garden, far enough away from others so that I can empty my aura and sleep deep at night.

I know now, that even one night of compromising my sleeping space is going to change my whole reality. If I have the imprint of another body sleeping close to me, I am going to wake up and react to life with a tad bit of their chemistry, as well. And it’s going to feel a little strange through out my day as I act out the nature of another.

If the person sleeping near my aura is a MG or a Manifestor, I may react with anger and it will be a shock to me and to others when it comes out. As a Generator, it is not natural for me to express anger. It is actually very odd and I surprise myself when it comes out.

If a Projector is sleeping in my aura, I may wake up a little bitter because I feel like I am not being heard or seen or even considered at important moments. That can have a disastrous effect in a business meeting that is reliant on me being in my chemistry and showing up properly with my talents and skills.

It is like this for everyone.

If only people knew just how much they are being influenced and imprinted.

People adapt to wrong environments, lose their direction completely, just to keep peace and harmony, feel “loved” or hopefully have an opportunity. Situations endure and the wrong people stay around because people want to be accepted or they are afraid of being alone.

Open Spleen people hold onto certain people tightly who are obviously not healthy for them. And open G people struggle with reasoning a relationship, or a job as the right thing because they are so confused. They desperately want to land into a traditional role and feel “normal” as though they finally have life “dialed in”.

And then there are the lovers.

When I am sitting with someone who is in a relationship, I watch the other partners face appear in front of me, inside the face of the person who is talking with me. I hear the tone of the other lover, I see the mannerisms and I hear their mental response. It is quite bizarre to watch.

There are two identities offering opinions, ideas, reactions and responses inside of one face. The lover is lost inside of the other and so is the other lost in this other. And now two have become one, literally.

Lovers talk like each other, think like each other, behave like each other, well, they are each other.

It is difficult to find the individual inside of a couple. It is also strange to hear a Generator talk about how bitter they are because they are not being recognized or a Projector talk about how frustrated they are because they want to push energy and make things happen. The frequency feels so strange when a person is behaving like something they are not.

This is why sovereignty is a gift. The Webster Dictionary defines sovereignty as one who is enjoying “autonomy, independence, self-government, self-rule, home rule, self determination, freedom”.

In the lucid, smooth frequency of a clear aura, the true, sovereign being is found and expressed.

If a person is focused on doing what they love, diligently applying their time and energy towards improving their skills and preparing for opportunities that are coming their way, there is no way they can lose.

There is no way one can feel lost, bored, dissatisfied or unrecognized; not when they are in the right place with the right people doing what they love and enjoy most.

When one is truly self-governed and free to be, the world becomes the oyster and “uniqueness” is the pearl discovered.

Sunflower love


Written by Kashi Stone   2016